School Life

Keep Calm: How to Motivate Yourself to Study (I)

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By Choo Shuen Ming (16A01E), Louisa Li (16A13A), Md Khairillah (16A01B)

In the aftermath of Keep Calm Week, Raffles Press brings to you a special RGC feature on study tips.

The secret of every successful man lies in the fact that he formed the habit of doing things that failures don’t like to do. They don’t like doing them either necessarily. But their disliking is subordinated to the strength of their purpose.

Albert Gray, The Common Denominator of Success

Keeping calm and studying in RI aren’t as mutually exclusive as you might think. Studying doesn’t have to be as painful as it is for most students, but if you relate to this, Press brings to you a special RGC feature on some tips to motivate yourself to study.

Protips from the counsellors:

  1. Just get started. Tell yourself that you’ll just do it for 5 minutes, it’ll help you get over the initial inertia, then you’ll find yourself continuing with it. Or, tell yourself you’ll do the easiest part first, like adjusting the margin, changing the font, etc.
  2. Sometimes the problem comes when we over-think things. Focus on the small, achievable tasks, and break them down to make them seem less intimidating. Internal deadlines are another option, but they might not help much; if you were good at self-regulation you probably wouldn’t be procrastinating in the first place.
  3. Fast-forward to the benefits of what you’re doing, then focus on them instead of the difficulties.

    Alternatively, take a look at Shia LaBeouf’s motivational video to kick-start your revision!

  4. Set SMART (Specific, Manageable, Attainable, Relevant, Time-bound goals) Set mastery-related rather than performance-related goals (“I will understand economics” rather than “I will get an A for economics”).

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    Print this out, paste it at your work desk, make it your phone wallpaper, tell yourself this every day. Just do it. Then it gets done!
  5. To make things feel less overwhelming, give yourself a starting and ending time, and divide it into smaller time frames. You can try the Pomodoro technique, where you take breaks after set intervals of work. Research also shows that taking small, effective breaks is the best way to make your work productive!
  6. Can’t bring yourself to study? Try to logically convince yourself to! Consider the consequences if you don’t do it. Is it better to do it now or later? Is it easier to do later? If it’s no, then the logical choice is to do it now. Although it might sound ridiculous, try to self-talk yourself into doing it! Imagine what your parents/future self would say to you, then say it to yourself. Repeatedly.
  7. Still not motivated? Try stickk.com, which helps motivate people to stick to their tasks and persevere. Set a goal, and set the amount of money you will donate to a charitable cause (to further motivate yourself, you can choose your least favourite cause) if you don’t meet your target. Then publicise your bet! Let all your friends know about it, and perhaps you’ll be more motivated to fulfill your task then.

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    Taken from stickk.com
  8. Still not working? Use your friends! Set up study groups and make appointments with friends to study. Trying to set up a good study habit is like trying to set up any other good habit; doing it with a friend somehow it gets you past the initial hurdle.

Here Press must caution that it is important to find out for yourself what motivates you, and not to take all our suggestions at face value. Ultimately, we all motivate ourselves in different ways. Some of us are motivated by prestige and pride, others by prizes, or perhaps even by people — it’s about figuring out what works for you. While the syllabus and curriculum may remain the same, what we can change are our methods for motivation: and it’s about creating motivation for yourself once you know what works for you. Similarly, if your friends are experiencing motivation issues, find out what motivates them, and create opportunities for them to be motivated. If your friend is motivated by prizes, then you could create games and challenges between one another if that spurs your friend on. Or if your friend needs a study companion, consider helping them out!

However, while you should find what motivates you, sometimes it’s also about just getting down to it. Occasionally, we hold ourselves back with our fear of failure, of taking risks, because we want to protect our image. Our fear of failure makes us self-sabotage and not even begin, so that we can avoid the possibility of failure and maintain our facade of confidence. But by doing that, no one, including yourself, will ever know if you’re truly capable or not. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If we want to pursue our passions and accomplish our goals, we must be willing to take that first step, and try. After you’ve read this article, pick up a pen and complete that long overdue Math tutorial. Just go do it.

Snippets of Imagination: Film Showcase 2015

Reading Time: 6 minutes

By Alex Tan (16S03B) and Karen Cuison (16A01D)
Images courtesy of Raffles Film Society

Directors of the thesis films taking questions.
Directors of the thesis films taking questions.

When prodded for his greatest takeaways from Snippets of Imagination, chairperson of Film Society Jiaxin Xu (16A01A) quipped that they would probably be the four tubs of ice-cream left over from the showcase. Even though we were not invited to share in the luxury of consuming the delectable confectionery, we were still thoroughly impressed and charmed by Raffles Film Society’s annual showcase. From a behind-the-scenes view of Raffles Runway’s annual fashion show, RE:Collections, to a series of five-minute shorts, and half-an-hour epics, there was something for everyone in the Performing Arts Centre.

Year Five Special Films
A selection of teasingly short films made by Year Fives started the ball rolling. Some were downright cryptic, consisting solely of short clips interestingly juxtaposed, featuring urban cityscapes and black-and-white shots of plaster legs. Others were more easily identifiable and narratively tight, arousing deserved laughter from the audience. A film that documented a friendship grown exclusively on Whatsapp, making real-life interactions impossibly awkward, was notable.

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Film Society collaborated with Raffles Runway to bring a behind-the-scenes view of Raffles Runway’s annual fashion show, RE:Collections. The skilfully crafted shorts premiered at RE:Collections, providing insights into the processes of ideation and creation. It was a refreshing change inserted smartly in between the Year Fives’ Feature Films and the Year Sixes’ Thesis Films.

Y6 Thesis Films
The feature films by the graduating batch of Film members left the audience in the Performing Arts Centre scared, stunned, sad, and in stitches, in that order.

Possessed

The female protagonist (Emma Lau), before tragedy befell her.
The female protagonist (Emma Lau), before tragedy befell her.

Synopsis:
Travelling on a budget? So were they, and renting a long-unused apartment seemed like the perfect solution. But all is not as it seems in the house. Will you be enjoying your stay?

Possessed kicked off the string of feature films with a most innocuous-looking printer, spitting out a booking confirmation for a budget HDB flat. The aptly selected soundtrack stitched together an atmosphere of foreboding and impending disaster from the beginning. This atmosphere was cleverly sustained throughout the eight-minute film – with whitewashed walls, much ambiguity, and gore scenes composed so well they looked discomfitingly like paintings. The frequency of frames shot from the characters’ backs, coupled with the jerky camera movements, contributed to the constant eerie sense that they were being watched by an invisible, supernatural force awaiting its opportune moment to pounce upon them. Although the film abounds in archetypes of its genre (other than its quintessentially Singaporean setting), the effective buildup guarantees that when the jumpscares arrive, aided by masterful special effects they pack plenty of lasting force and shock, fully and satisfyingly. All in all, Possessed was very successful, and its chilling ending, like any other good horror film, promises the horror’s continuity.

Directors: Allan Zhou, Fabian See
Cast: Joel Seow, Emma Lau, Allan Zhou

A Locked Room

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Kyle (Katrina Jacinto), on the verge of a new breakthrough.

Synopsis:
Kyle runs an online murder mystery interest forum where users post different crime scenarios and other posters try to solve it and hence improve it, just for the thrill. A particular anonymous thread catches Kyle’s attention. A seemingly real unsolved murder mystery which promises clues only when the right questions has been asked. Will Kyle solve the mystery? and IF she does, what will that earn her?

With its beautiful cinematography set to appositely spine-tingling tinkles, one quickly arrives at the sense that much art was woven into the shooting of this short film, much care taken to intricately establish each scene. Everything has an air of the vaguely disturbing, from the grotesquely bright mythical beasts and uncannily painted faces of Haw Par Villa to the haphazardly scattered books and noddingly mirthful deity in Kyle’s flat. Mystery so pervades Kyle’s existence, that even her moments of interiority revolve around poring over her online murder mystery forum, puzzling over unsolved enigmas. Watching the human presence of Kyle pacing through static surroundings, the sole incarnation of aliveness amidst death and hell, one wonders, with a lingering sense of dissatisfaction: how did Kyle come to solve murder mysteries? What life does she lead beyond these pursuits? What kind of person is she outside of her unwavering detective instincts?  These considerations aside, viewers thoroughly enjoyed the film as it builds with finesse to its horrific conclusion.

Director: Yuki Pan
Crew: Alethea Tan, Priya Ravi, Edina Loo
Cast: Katrina Jacinto and Megan Lourdesamy

The One You’ve Never Met

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Preparing for his sister’s arrival.

Synopsis:
A story of a boy who learns that his sister has six months more to live. Inspired by a true story.

The premise of The One You’ve Never Met had plenty of potential for poignancy. The film documents the development of the relationship between siblings Aiden and May after the latter finds out she has cancer. Unfortunately, this film stops short of achieving its intended effect. Any height of genuine emotion was dimmed by over-sentimentalized music, histrionic outbursts and an unrealistic script. Many of the lines bluntly tell what could have been more subtly shown, such as when May, frailly lying in her hospital bed, tells Aiden that his effort in visiting her everyday has been “pretty touching, actually”. Yet one finds details which provide brief flashes of pathos. After May’s sudden passing, Aiden remembers that her voice was inadvertently recorded in his small contraption, her presence manifested like a spectre in that tiny object. As a powerful symbol of the unexpected things people leave behind after their deaths, these redeeming moments remind us of the truth in the true story upon which the film is based.

Director: Lorraine Fong
Crew: Linette Chan. Lim Jingzhou
Cast: Gary Huang, Celeste Tan

A Canon of Proportions

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Student and teacher side by side.

Synopsis:
Who treads on your dreams? Paul and Felix, everyday boys in everyday modern life, hide secrets beneath their separate veneers. As their facades unravel under the influence of a hard-headed teacher, questions linger- what are they striving for, and for whose sake? Shot mainly in long, uninterrupted camera takes lasting up to 7 minutes in length, ‘a canon of proportions’ chronicles their efforts in dealing with individuality, modernity, and the remnants of an antiquated philosophy.

The first thing that stood out in A Canon of Proportions was its cinematography. Long, sprawling takes endowed the most mundane setting ever – school – with a majestic unfamiliarity. The estrangement, it seems, was part of the plan, fitting in impeccably in a plot about two boys questioning the veneers that living in modernity necessitates. On a deserted rooftop, Paul says, “It’s just not who I am … all this standing under the spotlight, all this nodding in the corridors when people walk back and forth, and I can’t stand it anymore.” Several lines later, his counterpart replies, “I’ve always wanted to produce something meaningful.” Although the film’s latent momentum was maintained in a balance of physical movement, humour and dialogue, the protracted stretches of Nietzsche-infused dialogue was heavy-handed and a little too self-indulgent. The subtlety and dimension of the film was, however, delightful. One can only speculate at, for example, the fate of Felix, who disappears at some point, or the homoerotic subtext between the various male characters in the film. Overall, Canon’s perplexity made for a rewarding – though at times vexing – viewing experience.

Director: Andrew Chen
Crew: Zhang Yuchen, Jeremy Tian
Cast: Gabriel Ng, Hethav Siva, Ariwan Kai

For us (and, we believe, many members of the audience), Snippets was an eye-opening opportunity to view conflicts and concepts through the able and sensitive cinematographic lenses of our peers. We would love to enjoy it again, with ice-cream next time.

Aunt Agony and Uncle Upset: Relationships in Promos

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Ever wanted to rant about that someone you just can’t stand? Overwhelmed with too many feelings? Check out Raffles Press’ new column, Ask Aunt Agony and Uncle Upset, and our resident Aunties and Uncles will be glad to help you with your Rafflesian troubles! Submit your confessions to tinyurl.com/rafflesadvicecolumn and we’ll give them our best shot.

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Keep Calm: An Introduction

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By Louisa Li (16A13A) and Md Khairillah (16A01B)

Interview by Adelyn Tan (16A01E) and Choo Shuen Ming (16A01E)

Familiar?
Familiar?

Around campus, two sights are familiar to all: that of the Rafflesian studying, and that of the Rafflesian trying to study. Raffles Press speaks to counsellors Kah Hwee and Mei Hui for tips on how to navigate a school life constantly marred by abject and inevitable stress, as well as the support available when we feel overwhelmed by it.

Stress is the common denominator among all teenagers: Kah Hwee stressed that “the teenage years are a developmental stage, and it can result in high emotional intensity.” Most teenagers go through similar issues, if communal moaning about problems in general teenager linguo is anything to go by. What does differ however, is the intensity of the issues we undergo, coming down to our individual capacities to adjust and manage the changes. Someone who lacks stable and effective stress management mechanisms may be better off with external help, which is of course no indictment on one’s personality or disposition. Requiring more support and help to build the skills needed to stay mentally healthy is wholly understandable, and encouragingly, something which our counsellors have plenty to say on.

First and foremost, mental wellness is a skill, not just a state of being. Mental wellness, as an extension, provides a support structure for dealing with stressors when they come. As Mei Hui puts it, “You’ll be able to handle them better; you’ll be more adaptable; you have more resources on hand and they’re less likely to cause a mental illness.”

Such support structures include having a good social network to manage the stress in your life, and leading a healthy and balanced lifestyle. To that end, you should ensure that there are constant positives in your life; the smallest pleasures and interests can often reap enormous benefits and leave you with a feeling of ease and comfort. Basic physiological needs for instance are unexpectedly important: our sedentary lifestyles mean that we don’t get enough sleep, eat well enough or exercise enough. Our bodies are created to work, and movement is a way of countering and managing the stress built up in the body over a period of time. A lot of things can slip in the long run if we don’t pay attention to these things.

Apart from building support structures to ensure that you remain healthy, helping your friends by listening to them is important too. Rather than needing people to outright ‘solve their problems from the get-go,’ people often ‘just need to vent and feel like they’re being cared for.’ As friends, our focus needs to shift from solving people’s problems to understanding these problems from their own perspective; Kah Hwee mentions that just being there  “can actually go a long way in helping people feel better and they might realize they don’t need anything beyond that.”

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However, Kah Hwee cautions against being the only supporter and carrying the burden yourself. Expanding the support network by bringing another good friend in would ensure that your friend doesn’t become over-dependent on you – you should think about taking care of yourself as well. “If not,” Kah Hwee jokes, what ensues are “phone calls at midnight and texting till 3am.”

The last people that teenagers would ever think of turning to would ironically be their parents, as “the relationship between a lot of teens and their parents can be very complicated”. Growing up is the process of finding your own identity, and many teenagers tend to drift apart from their parents. Nevertheless, your parents are still the ones who brought you up all these years; they do care about you. Mei Hui qualifies that the “majority of the parents we speak to genuinely love and care for their children. It may be hard for teenagers to see that now, but whatever happens, they’re still your family. If one parent is unsupportive, try talking to the other!”

Other than your friends and family, support is also readily available in school. Kah Hwee recommends coming down to speak to the counsellors, or talking to your teachers if you’re comfortable with it. If the situation worsens and you suspect that you might have a mental illness, the counsellors can also administer screeners, and talk to you to get a sense of whether or not you display enough symptoms to warrant a diagnosis. “We can take you through the whole process. For students who are afraid to speak to their parents about it, we could also invite their parents to come down and have a chat.”

This Keep Calm week, try your hand at some of the fun activities in the canteen, while learning about how to deal with a bevy of life crises. Don’t wait for one to happen before you start worrying about stress management!

Keep Calm Week: A Preview

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By Chew Cheng Yu (16S06L), Choo Shuen Ming (16A01E), Louisa Li (16A13A) and Md Khairillah (16A01B)

Stressed? Depressed? Stressed and depressed? Hear ye, hear ye! The counsellors at Raffles Guidance Center are collaborating with the Community Advocates group Lifeline to bring you “Keep Calm Week” from tomorrow until the end of the week!

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